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Brian Villanueva's avatar

Your story brought back memories. My parents lived in Mexico for many years. Every time we drove in, the border guard would ask for your passport, car reg, and Mexican insurance card. The guard would sweep your documents off the table, allowing the 10K peso note you put underneath to drop seamlessly into his lap. My parents followed this routine for years.

One time, I think after Vincente Fox's election which broke the PRI's 70 year control of Mexican politics and ushered in a (very temporary) anti-corruption mindset, the guard picked the documents up instead of sweeping them off the table, and the bill fell out on the table instead of in his lap. He didn't even look up: "that's not necessary any longer." We weren't sure what to do: pick it up and acknowledge on camera that we were trying to bribe him? We finally did and hurried out without incident.

My parents stopped going into Mexico shortly thereafter. As the cartels became less hesitant to target Americans, it just wasn't safe anymore. I have no idea what the bribery procedure is now, but I'm sure there is one. Because in most of the world, that's just the way it works.

We have many problems in America, but spending significant time outside of this country makes one very thankful for the many blessings we have too.

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Christy's avatar

Great example!

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